What a day. Dad decided that he needed to be out in the front room this morning. While out there, he called me and let me know that he wanted to go to Clearlake. It broke my heart because I knew that he would never again be able to make the trip up there. We chatted for a couple of minutes, and I told him that I would be by shortly to visit.
When I got there, he was sitting on the edge of the couch. He was contemplating staying out there or going back to his bed to rest. We chatted for a few minutes, and we decided that it was best for him to go back to his room to take a quick nap before his sisters arrived for their visit.
Not too long after, his sisters and niece arrived and visited for a good while. Stories and jokes were told, and pictures were shared. While we chatted, he entertained us with his button-pushing skills, as he would raise his bed up as high as it would go, then lower it as low as it would go, all the while making his bed fold into a 90-degree angle so that he could sit at attention while we all talked. It was quite entertaining. All in all, it was a nice visit.
Dad's hospice nurse arrived this afternoon to assess where we are. The last time his hospice nurse was here was last Friday. The difference he saw in my dad from that date until today was huge. We chatted about his upcoming procedure on Thursday, all while trying to get my dad's opinion on the matter. My dad was very confused during the conversation as he would try to listen and comprehend what was being said.
We decided to touch base tomorrow on whether or not we thought it was a good idea to proceed with his procedure.
I can tell that Dad's pain is becoming a bit more for him to handle. He was also getting a bit more agitated and restless today than he was yesterday, which is to be expected as time goes on.
We are taking everything day by day. No expectations. Just being. We will see what tomorrow holds. For tonight, we will hopefully have a good night's rest and start again in the morning.
Good Night. It's been a long day.
Many of my friends are praying for my brother and you., Jenny. You are such a loving daughter and I'm so proud to take this journey with you.
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Thank you so much! You have been amazing and always by my side. I truly appreciate all that you have done for me. I love you!
DeleteLet my friend know we are with Jim and Donna in Texas, they said to say hi. Bev and I are holding you all on our hearts and prayers. Thank you for keeping us informed.
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ReplyDeletePlease tell John we are thinking of him so much. We cherish his friendship and always looking forward to being with him.
Please give him our love.
Oh thank you so much for commenting. Norma and Eva are caring for my Dad, as they did for my Mom and your parents as well. Your parents come up in conversation with them. They always have kind things to say about them.
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